The battle for the future of Britain's high streets is a topic that comes up regularly.
Retailers talk about rising costs, online competition, changing consumer habits and the challenges of attracting customers through their doors.
But sometimes the biggest threat to a business isn't Amazon, eBay or any other online giant, or a supermarket. Sometimes it's simply poor customer service.
My wife and I recently experienced a perfect example.
We visited a specialist cheesemonger that we have used several times before. We weren't browsing. We had every intention of making a substantial purchase, expecting to spend somewhere between £50 and £60 on a selection of quality cheeses.
When we entered the shop there were only two members of staff present: the manager and an assistant who were both behind the counter. There were no other customers.
The assistant was engrossed in loudly reading a lengthy letter on her phone concerning the departure of the headmaster at her daughter's school. As my wife and I approached the counter, the manager glanced up and asked, "Can I help you?"
"Yes, please," I replied.
That should have been the start of a straightforward sale.
Instead, the assistant continued reading the letter aloud. At one point she even exclaimed, "Oh! I thought that was all, but there's lots more!" before carrying on. The manager appeared equally interested, asking questions and engaging in the conversation.
Meanwhile, my wife and I stood waiting.
And waiting.
And waiting.
Neither member of staff made any effort to serve us, acknowledge the delay, or even pause their discussion. Eventually we simply turned around and left.
The sale was lost.
As we walked away from the shop my wife summed it up perfectly.
"And shopkeepers wonder why people buy items on Amazon instead of using high street traders!"
Her comment struck a nerve because it highlights a truth many businesses still struggle to accept.
Customers don't just buy products. They buy experiences. They buy service. They buy convenience. They buy feeling valued.
Amazon doesn't always offer the best products, the lowest prices or the most specialist knowledge. What it does offer is efficiency. Customers click a button, place an order and receive what they need without being ignored or treated as an interruption.
Independent retailers have something Amazon can never replicate: personal service, expertise and human interaction. Yet those advantages disappear the moment staff become distracted by their phones or personal conversations.
Every customer who walks through the door is a potential sale. More importantly, they're a potential repeat customer.
In our case, two loyal long-term customers left empty-handed because two members of staff chose a school letter over a paying customer.
The lesson for businesses is simple: if customers feel invisible, they'll quickly find somewhere else to spend their money.
Incidentally, many cheesemongers have Amazon channels.







